"Is it shallow to want beautiful girls?"
(It can also be read like this: "is it shallow to want gorgeous guys?")
The answer:
"What's beautiful? What beauty do you see in them?"
(Taken from Lala Bohang's book 'The Book of Invisible Questions' page 8)
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Perhaps it is natural for people to like beauty, though for sure everyone has his/her own standard for beauty, both physical beauty or inner beauty. For physical beauty, advertisements in medias will probably shape someone's idea of beauty. They may work. However, they may not. There are always a lot of possibilities in this life.
Then comes the following question:
"Will good looking faces make people fall in love? Or falling in love will make someone see their loved one look good?"
Once I wrote such a question in my social media account. More people chose the second: 'falling in love will make someone look good'. 😁
When someone grows older, will he/she lose his/her good look? Will their partner see him/her just as good looking as before? One thing that I think will stay the same is the feeling between this particular couple, as long as they can maintain their reciprocal feeling well.
When the feeling stays the same, then the good look is no longer important. Am I right?
In this age of mine, I am still looking forward to finding such a partner.
Djajanti Coffee, 16.30 03 April 2025
